Are you a person who chats a lot? Same! I chat a lot with my friends and classmates when I am NOT suppose to.

Soo… what if you were in the middle of an English lesson and your friend was calling you. Would you ignore or chat with her / him? ( Comment below for your answer )

I have a BEST friend and we sat near eachother once. We uses to talk and talk and we were in big troubles, like ALWAYS!!

I never used to know what we were doing after since I was not listening and that happened for a WHILE!!

I realised that we cannot always talk when something important is happening. That also affected my grades and the way I was learning because if I go to high-school, I would get into big trouble. I have to stop now!!

And to those who do talk too much at school or you know.. where you work? Maybe, talking is a limited thing at some points…

Who would trust to tell a personal secret? Confused? I was like that a long time ago and I was bursting to tell someone.

We have to learn to be careful about what we say because if you say something wrong, that person might tell someone else. Your friend might be all nice to you, but you don’t know if they could tell.

Soo… if you had a thing like you have a crush on someone ( lol I could only think of that ) , who would you tell? It may be a person that picks on you. I had the same experience.. I had a crush on someone that picked on me… NOT WHAT WE ARE TALKING ABOUT THOUGH!!!!

I told my friend and she said she is going to tell him, the person I like! I was so angry at her and I kept telling her to stop! I regretted telling her and well…

Be careful about who you are talking to because they might act like your friend but they might not actually be!!!

I am a bit fussy on who to trust on certain things. Some things that is personal I share with my cousin, Fuldi and I trust people like my best friend Aizel on certain things also!

We need to know who to trust because they could tell someone and then they could pick on you. It has happened to me pots of times, also because of my friend!

People that are your friends could tell people and who knows what will happen. Once, I told my friend something that happened and she told someone and they ( not my friend ) started to run after me and I tripped over quite badly!!

If something personal happened, I would suggest you don’t tell your friends because who knows? I am not saying you should or should not but.. if you trust someone and you have a strong friendship, you can tell them but do be careful about what you say!!

This is one of the reasons people might pick on you, just because of THAT!!!

Trust the people who is close to you…

Are you afraid about how you look? I was, two years ago, when my life at school wasn’t the same, STILL IS..

At the age of let’s say 10 or 11, girls focus on how they look at school.

When I was in Year 5, I used to wear ponytail to school and people called me Ariana Grande, even though they know I hate her and I like Harris J! ( Really sorry I said ‘ hate ‘ to all Ariana Grande fans! )

Now, I have a problem with my neck and I was scared if people made fun of me! So, I normally have my hair out or two plaits!

People never stop making fun of people.

IT MAY BE BECAUSE THEY DONT LIKE THEMSELVES OR THEY LIKE IT! All of uou are unique and no one can replace you, EVER!!!

I am unique in my own way and so are all of you out there in the world!

People like to make fun of people because they think the other person looks weird. Well… let me tell you something NOW!!!!

People at my school called me FAT and horrible and that the garbage is my HOME!! I didn’t do anything because I was shy and I kind of still am!

My mum was really angry but I told her to not do anything, but she did.. long story!

I have talked about this on other of my posts and I am linking them to this one.

We are all unique because if we were the same, the world would be nothing and we should be grateful for how we were brought up.

People might be fat, skinny, different type of face, blue or red eyes but that is what makes us unique! We all should appreciate this moment, look in the mirror, say you are beautiful. ( Seriously I would appreciate it. Thanks! )

People stand up and say you are unique! If you find the people that made fun of you, say ‘ I AM UNIQUE, I AM UNIQUE! ‘

I love the way I am, you should as well! Love you guys so, so much and never stop loving who you are and you are unique and no one is the same as YOU!!!!!

Has someone’s comment changed you? There are people that changed just because of that! I have been in the same position as you, for 2 years now,  and I still am.

For some reason, people like to do that for fun but it is not funny guys! People love themselves!

Soo… what if someone said to you that you should go to the garbage because that is your home? What would you do? Someone actually said that to me 3 weeks ago but they swore as well.

I was very hurt by that comment. Even if thay don’t say anything about you, it can still affect you for life.

I know how you feel, I changed my life because of the comments that people said to me. I now talk in class because people said that I am so firstly but I never talk in class. Ever since that, my studies went like BOOSH! All gone down a my parents and teachers are wondering what happened!

Dont end up like me because it is horrible, especially if you are a kid. Don’t let anyone get to you….

I am scared about what is going to happen in the future. What will I be? Will I ever love myself?

In one of my posts, I said something about people’s comments hurting you and making you change who you are.

Not that long ago, someone said that I had a heart shaped face and said some other things. That made me think that I looked weird! I wanted to wear a hijab ever since. It was so no one could see my forehead.

Yesterday, I realised that I was myself: I asked my mum if I can wear a hijab to my cousins house because I didn’t want to show my hair, my mum said no because I need to know why I should wear it before I can!

Also, my cousin is 20 years old and she showed me something. Her blog is about Islam ( journeytotheheartofislam.com ) and she writes about Islam. She wanted to interview me and one of my other cousins and I told her about school and what happened.

She said that I am myself and I have a lovely face. Also boys might make fun of me because they umm.. like me or because they are having problems themselves.

My cousin has showed me so much and because of her, I realised that I should be myself, and also because of my mum and dad!!

We have to learn that we should always be ourselves and that we shouldn’t change just because of a person’s comment. I learnt that now!

I am respectful to the people around me because it is showing respect.

But this is not what this is about!

We have to show respect to everyone, even the people that us rude to you! It is because if you want them to show respect to you, do it to them.

You must love people showing respect to you isn’t it? Well, here is the best tip, you have to show respect to the people that you want to show respect to you! It is a nice thing to do and it is being nice to people! We all want to be nice to everyone!

Showing respect is an important thing, show respect to others, even the people which you might not particularly like, if you may want them to stop and show you respect!

Has people made you shy to ask about things? As I said in my other blogs, I have been in the same position as you.

Say, if someone said that you are not confident and you are shy, what would you do?

I have nothing to say because I would not tell anyone , I am shy at my school and if you think I’m lying, NOT TRUE!!

People’s word can actually change you forever because it stays with you and keeps on replaying in your head.

But.. it ends right now! We have to be confident in ourselves and let that confidence burst through our hearts and into the world, to show people how confident we are!

Walk proudly! Act proudly! Be confident! Don’t be shy!

Show people what you are and don’t listen to people if they tell you that you are not confident because you are. Show that confidence out into the world!!

I am always scared to stand up for myself because I am worried if I get in trouble for something that I didn’t do. Something inside me tells me that I might end up getting in trouble!

Once, something happened to me and another student and ever since that, I realised that I have to stand up for myself.

We have to learn to be brave and tell the teachers if something happened and be brave, be bold!

People are going to try to make you in trouble one way or another but we are going to tell them to back off because we are brave and bold!

Listen, be yourself and stand up for yourself and tell them to stop or just tell someone, but always tell the truth because if you don’t, 5 minutes later, you are going to be in a position that you don’t want to be in.